Meaning of Daddy Issues by The Neighbourhood & The Story Behind

First, a little about the legendary: “The Neighborhood” was formed in California in 2011 and performed compositions in an unusual and relaxing indie pop. The band members are Jeremy Friedman and Zach Ebels on guitar, Jesse Rutherford on vocals, Mikey Margot and Brian Sammis on bass and drums.

This was the first line-up, however, on January 16, 2014, the band officially announced publicly that Brian Sammis, who plays drums, was leaving the band.

In April 2013, while still with their old line-up, they announced their 2013 summer tour with Lovelife called The Love Collection Tour and that they were planning to release a mixtape. December 10, 2013 The Neighborhood presented the world with their latest album The love collection. After a while they join the  #000000 & #FFFFFF project.  The mixtape was finally released at the end of November 2017.

At the end of the summer of 2015, The Neighborhood was pleased with the news of the release of the album Wastered out, which was scheduled to premiere on October 30th. The band embarked on a European and American tour in support of the album.

The song performed by The Neighborhood, Daddy issues, was released in May 2016 and caused a frenzy of delight from the listeners. She was included in the second album with the bright name “Wiped Out!”, Which was released in the fall of 2015 and included 11 tracks. The lyrics to this composition were written by Brandon Frida along with the vocalist and Justin Pilbrow.

Interesting facts about the song “Daddy issues”.

In a fairly popular video hosting, she scored more than thirty-six million views. It can be literally translated into Russian in different ways: as disagreements with the father or problems with the father. According to the scientific version, it has the name of the Electra complex. What is the meaning of this name? Electra is a vivid example of a girl left without a father because of her mother in mythology. Perhaps some of you have heard about the Oedipus complex, which was brought out by Sigmund Freud. This name came from mythology and meant attraction to the parent of the opposite sex. From an early age, Elektra lived without a father, he was constantly on campaigns, then he besieged Troy, then something else, in short, he was very busy. His wife was very offended by him: he did not appear at home for 10 years, and, on top of everything else, he brought a concubine, whom he loved very much. But it was still nothing compared to that he killed her husband and child. This person was quite bloodthirsty.

Clytemnestra, in order to take revenge on him, entered into sexual relations with his cousin. When Agamemnon returned from the campaign and went to the bathhouse, instead of giving a towel, his wife threw it over his head, while the lover, who was behind the deceived husband, killed him with a knife in the back.

Elektra missed her father very much, as she had not seen her for a long time. Therefore, after he was killed, she got angry. Clytemnestra and her lover bloodthirstyly decided to kill their brother, which finally brought Electra out. She saved his life, but the killers were very angry with her.

Sophocles wrote that during the reign of her stepfather, Electra was subjected to constant mockery, but she tried her best not to let herself be offended. Her stepfather and wife were tired of quarreling and swearing with her, so they sent her to prison. The story ends with the saved brother and Elektra killing Agamemnon’s wife and stepfather.

The meaning of the song “Daddy issues”.

There is a lot to think about in this song: “fathers and sons” – the nature of the problems is different, besides, men and women perceive them in almost opposite projections: the relationship of a girl with her father in the future is reflected in the relationship with a partner. But in order to change herself, she needs an example, but, based on the text, alas, there is none.

The behavior of the guy and his character is explained by his relationship with his father. If dad is rude to his son because of hatred for him, then this will develop many complexes and injuries in the boy in the future. It is quite another thing when he loves his son and is strict with him, this will help the guy become a real man in the future.

From the line “It’s crazy what you do for fame” (it’s amazing what you do for popularity) – these are the words of the guy. You can guess that he is ready to sacrifice everything for the sake of glory. He will do everything, even trample anyone into the dirt, so as not to spoil the opinion of society about his own person.

This once again proves how rude and cruel the father was towards his son. This is not openly sung in the song. That’s just from the line “You know what your mama went through” (You know what your mother went through), which the narrator says to himself, it is clear that the guy had serious disagreements in the family. They ruined his health on a mental level.

The song talks about growing up without a father, especially for young girls who are faced with such an unpleasant situation, and is a kind of support.

“Daddy Issues” Lyrics by The Neighbourhood

Take  you  like  a  drug
I  taste  you  on  my  tongue

You  ask  me  what  I’m  thinking  about
I  tell  you  that  I’m  thinking  about
Whatever  you’re  thinking  about
Tell  me  something  that  I  won’t  forget
And  you  might  have  to  tell  me  again
It’s  crazy  what  you  do  for  a  friend

Go  ahead  and  cry  little  girl
Nobody  does  it  like  you  do
I  know  how  much  it  matters  to  you
I  know  that  you  got  daddy  issues
And  if  you  were  my  little  girl
I’d  do  whatever  I  could  do
I’d  run  away  and  hide  with  you
I  love  that  you  got daddy  issues
And  I  do  too

I  tried  to  write  your  name  in  the  rain
But  the  rain  never  came
So  I  made  with  the  sun
The  shade  always  comes  at  the  worst  time

You  ask  me  what  I’m  thinking  about
I’ll  tell  you  that  I’m  thinking  about
Whatever  you’re  thinking  about
Tell  me  something  that  I’ll  forget
And  you  might  have  to  tell  me  again
It’s  crazy  what  you’ll  do  for  a  friend

Go  ahead  and  cry  little  girl
Nobody  does  it  like  you  do
I  know  how  much  it  matters  to  you
I  know  that  you  got  daddy  issues
And  if  you  were  my  little  girl
I’d  do  whatever  I  could  do
I  love  it  when  I’m  high  with  you
I  love  that  you got  daddy  issues
And  I  do  too

I  keep  on  trying  to  let  you  go
I’m  dying  to  let  you  know
How  I’m  getting  on
I  didn’t  cry  when  you  left  at  first
But  now  that  you’re  dead  it  hurts
This  time  I  gotta  know
Where  did  my  daddy  go ?
I’m  not  entirely  here
Half  of  me  has disappeared

Go  ahead  and  cry  little  boy
You  know  that  your  daddy  did  too
You  know  what  your  mama  went  through
You  gotta  let  it  out  soon ,  just  let  it  out

Go  ahead  and  cry  little  girl
Nobody  does  it  like  you  do
I  know  how  much  it  matters  to  you
I  know  that  you  got  daddy  issues
And  if  you  were  my  little  girl
I’d  do  whatever  I  could  do
I’d  run  away  and  hide  with  you
I  love  that  you  got daddy  issues
And  I  do  too

And  if  you  were  my  little  girl
I’d  do  whatever  I  could  do
I’d  run  away  and  hide  with  you
I  love  that  you  got  daddy  issues
And  I  do  too

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